Privilege and Allyship

Dear Liz Lin,

Reading your article “Why Asian Americans Might Not Talk About Ferguson” raised interesting questions about privilege and what it means to be an ally. The opening story, in which you recount being let into a friends’ apartment by a maintenance man with no questions asked, really resonated with me. I was reminded of how I occasionally stop at strangers’ houses while out and about in my south Minneapolis neighborhood to ask to use the bathroom or a phone when mine is dead. More often than not, the answer is yes with almost no hesitation. If I were a man, if I were black or Hispanic, these interactions might go very differently. I rarely stop to think about the privileges afforded to me as a white woman (not to mention a cisgender, upper-middle-class, able-bodied white woman), but they inform many of my actions and allow me to live the life that I do. What am I to do with this privilege? Do I, as a more privileged member of society, have an obligation to help those with less privilege? If so, what does that help look like?

Furthermore, your article made me wonder about how to go about being an ally. I want to stand up, to do my part to fight oppression, but I simultaneously don’t want to intrude on a struggle that isn’t my own. For example, pride events intended for the LGBTQ community have become popular among straight people in recently years. In my understanding, many LGBTQ members resent the transformation of pride events into a party and socialization opportunity for straights. Is the difference between support and intrusion intent? Behavior? Empathy, or lack therof? Or perhaps the requirements of being an ally vary from situation to situation, from group to group.

In any event, your article was a very thought-provoking, relevant and well-written piece. Thank you for writing it.

Sincerely,

Annabel Chosy

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